It is time to delineate between what is truly your responsibility and what you have taken on that is not your responsibility . Where you have no legitimate control, you have no liability. Separate yourself from those things that drain your energy unnecessarily, and always follow my leading . Refuse to be coerced into sharing a burden that is not yours. 1 Thessalonians 4 :11-12 " And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands , as we commanded you; That ye may walk honestly toward them that are without, and that ye may have lack of nothing" My 2 Cents: Putting STUFF on our plate that God did not tell us to pick up. Saying YES to every invite, function, get together, paying someone else's bill when we didn't ask God about it 1st!!